Not in High School

Have you ever had someone just contact you out of the blue and ask you a very personal question?

I had that happen yesterday. Some chick sent me a message in Facebook asking me when that last time I saw Jim. Oh and that she was "just curious". Yeah right "just curious". I knew it was a loaded question.

I told her that I sometimes chat with him. She then asked me when the last time I was "with him". Wow!! What a loaded question!!!! She then told me that she was involved with him and that she had heard that he and I "hook up". She just wanted to be sure it was not while they were together. Well the funny thing is that I had chatted with the guy several days prior about hooking up and he did not mention that he had a girlfriend! After she contacted me I called him - well I guess he actually does not have a girlfriend but it is someone who is married and unhappy and wants to be with him. He told me that yes they have slept together but he said he told her it was not happening while she was still married.

So I want to know why in the hell is she asking me anything.

Then she gets mad at me because I asked who told her about me and him. She calls me a gossip. Well she is reacting to gossip. I am just trying to figure out what the hell is going on. I just want to be left alone.

He tells me that a specific male told her and she says that some unnamed female told her. Well which one is telling the truth.

I personally think she needs to get her life in order, stand on her own feet, take care of her kids, get a divorce and then think about getting involved with someone. Until then she is just asking for disaster and more heartbreak.

I just want to be left out of it. I hooked up with the guy twice over the course of 10 months. The last was 7 months ago. Why again am I being dragged into this???? Geez....